Matthew 6:12b
Main Idea
How can we forgive others?
Outline
Pre-Questions
When someone wrongs you, is your first instinct to forgive, avoid, or hold on to the hurt? Why?
Can you share a time when forgiving someone brought you unexpected freedom or peace?
Discussion Questions
Read Matthew 6:12b.
Why do you think Jesus directly connects our asking God for forgiveness with our willingness to forgive others?
Read Matthew 18:21-35 (the parable of the unforgiving servant).
How does this story illustrate the seriousness of refusing to forgive others after we have been forgiven so much by God?
Read Ephesians 4:31-32.
What practical steps does Paul give us for living out forgiveness in community? How can kindness and compassion help us reflect the forgiveness we’ve received in Christ?
Read Colossians 3:12-13.
What does it mean to “bear with one another” and forgive as the Lord has forgiven us? How does this stretch your understanding of what forgiveness requires?
How is forgiveness not just about the other person, but also about our own spiritual health and freedom?
Theological Reflection
Forgiveness doesn’t mean ignoring justice or pretending nothing happened. Instead, it means entrusting justice to God while releasing the bitterness in our hearts. How does this definition of forgiveness challenge or comfort you?
Application
Think of someone you may still need to forgive. Spend time in prayer this week, asking God for the strength to release them and entrust the situation to Him.
Practice daily, reminding yourself: “Because I have been forgiven much, I can forgive.”
Consider writing a note of forgiveness or reconciliation to someone who has wronged you—even if you never send it—as a way of letting go before God.
Closing
If forgiveness is the natural response of those who know God’s grace, how can your life bear witness to His mercy this week? Who might see Christ more clearly because you chose to forgive?